CRASH said:I am not trying to be snotty, I pretty much agree with you about everything and I am sorry to hear about your husband. That must have been very difficult.
I don't think I am as young as you might think - I am 42. Drugs were readily available from numerous sources in the 70's in our town of about 10,000. Some kids were having sex in Jr. high after we went through "sex education." and smoking pot in 6th grade. Sin was rampant there and from what I could tell living in cities for the past 25 years it is getting worse in both places. I saw speed for the first time in the 5th grade when a kid brought it to school.
I don't know why. But, I thought you were in your twenties. :chuckle: It could be considered a compliment in someways and not in others. :chuckle: I'm 36 (37 in about three weeks).
The urban junior high and high schools I attended (3,000 and more students) tended to have rampant drug use and sex. That leaves out the violence that occured on a daily basis. While the rural schools I attended (under 3,000 students) did have their problems, the drug use and sex was nowhere near as common as in the cities. In fact, the rural high school I graduated from (We had a senior class of 52 students) had almost no drug use. I don't really know about the sex there because the kids didn't do anything in the hallways or under the bleachers. I think that it depends on how the majority of kids are raised and whether the adults in the school are Christians, themselves.
The only main thing we disagree on is whether it is a sin. Try to answer these questions from God's perspective.
1. As a Christian parent, is it sinful to let people who hate God teach things to your children day after day, week after week and year after year and will that effect their thinking toward God?
2. Is it sinful to send your children into a place where the "education" is expressly God-less?
The answer to both these questions is the same. No, it isn't sinful. Foolish, yes. People are allowed to make mistakes. God knows, I've made my share of them. And, I know that in order to grow, people (whether Christian or not) need to be allowed to make those mistakes and move on from there.
3. What would God have done to Mary and Joseph if they had sent little Jesus over to the Philistines to be "educated" 5 days a week for 12 years?
Well, you have to look at how children were raised back then, too. Public schools are fairly new to humanity. Back then, the mother would take care of the children until they were eight to ten years old. Then, the boys would go work with the father or be apprenticed out to other men, helping to contribute to the family, and the girls would work with the mother.
To be honest, I don't know what God would do to Mary and Joseph if they lived today and sent Jesus to public school, though.
4. If you know the government school is destroying the vast majority of people who pass through it and you did nothing to warn them, would that be a sin?
This is something that I am "iffy" on. I think it is unwise not to warn people. I think it is wrong not to warn people. But, do I think it is a sin? I honestly cannot say yes or no to that one.
5. As a Christian parent, in general, what will your relationship be like with your children when they are 16 - Homeschooled vs. Public School?
:chuckle: I already know this one. I am witnessing first-hand what it is like right now. My daughter will be 16 in January.
I know that I have, what I consider, typical teen problems with her. But, based on what I did as a teenager and what I've heard from parents who decide to send their children to public school, I know that my problems aren't even close to what they would be if I chose to put her in public school. And, I've said so many times.
6. Are you fulfilling your role as a Christian parent when you abdicate your authority to a false religion promoting, pro-abortion, pro-child sex, pro-homosexual, pro-socialist, pro-rabid environmentalist, anti-Christian, anti child discipline, government school?
Now, you know what I'd say to this. I believe that homeschooling is the best way to educate our children. But, not all parents believe the same thing because they've bought into the NEA claptrap.
7. If not, would you be sinning?
Read my response to question #4. That explains my position on this.
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