Dad is in the hospital with fluid from congestive heart failure, a UTI and confusion caused by a combination of the two, and a low oxygen level. I found him in the floor of his bedroom in his home this afternoon, and just got home from 10 hours at the hospital. My dad is 84, and is fiercely independent, lives on his own, drives, keeps his dr appts and meds straight, banks and pays bills on line - he is an amazing old guy - and I love him the way an only daughter/only child can love her dad. Please pray for him. I want him to be able to live with dignity and have his independence, and his pride. He is a good Christian - one of the truest Christians I have ever met. Thank you for your prayers, and for keeping my wonderful daddy in your thoughts.
Dad is in the hospital with fluid from congestive heart failure, a UTI and confusion caused by a combination of the two, and a low oxygen level. I found him in the floor of his bedroom in his home this afternoon, and just got home from 10 hours at the hospital. My dad is 84, and is fiercely independent, lives on his own, drives, keeps his dr appts and meds straight, banks and pays bills on line - he is an amazing old guy - and I love him the way an only daughter/only child can love her dad. Please pray for him. I want him to be able to live with dignity and have his independence, and his pride. He is a good Christian - one of the truest Christians I have ever met. Thank you for your prayers, and for keeping my wonderful daddy in your thoughts.
Dad is in the hospital with fluid from congestive heart failure, a UTI and confusion caused by a combination of the two, and a low oxygen level. I found him in the floor of his bedroom in his home this afternoon, and just got home from 10 hours at the hospital. My dad is 84, and is fiercely independent, lives on his own, drives, keeps his dr appts and meds straight, banks and pays bills on line - he is an amazing old guy - and I love him the way an only daughter/only child can love her dad. Please pray for him. I want him to be able to live with dignity and have his independence, and his pride. He is a good Christian - one of the truest Christians I have ever met. Thank you for your prayers, and for keeping my wonderful daddy in your thoughts.
We are very grateful for all of the prayers, and thank you all.
Dad is going to be in the hospital for a few days - he still has some fluid, some confusion and is very weak. Hopefully physical therapy at the hospital will strengthen him, and a few days at my house with the hubster and myself after his release will help him also. The ultimate goal is for him to keep his independence, but at this point we just don't know if that will be possible.
Considering all that is going on with both of my parents and all we have been through as a family these past two years, I feel remarkably calm - I am positive that the power of all of these prayers is responsible for this peaceful feeling. God bless you all.
There are ways for your Dad to retain some independence even if he requires assistance. Sounds like you and your husband understand the importance of this for him.
Update: my dad will need physical therapy before he can come home with me, so the hospital got him a therapy bed at the same excellent facility my mom is at for her dementia. Since shortly before we left the hospital he has become increasingly confused. He called me last night at 11:00, begging me to come and pick him up. It is heartbreaking - I could not get him in my house if I had to, since he cannot walk without assistance, much less climb stairs - and now that the confusion has set in, he reminds me of the way my mother behaves, sundowning included. Please continue to pray for him, and for all of us. This is rending my heart in two.
Update: my dad will need physical therapy before he can come home with me, so the hospital got him a therapy bed at the same excellent facility my mom is at for her dementia. Since shortly before we left the hospital he has become increasingly confused. He called me last night at 11:00, begging me to come and pick him up. It is heartbreaking - I could not get him in my house if I had to, since he cannot walk without assistance, much less climb stairs - and now that the confusion has set in, he reminds me of the way my mother behaves, sundowning included. Please continue to pray for him, and for all of us. This is rending my heart in two.
Thank you bybee and IMJ. The Lord is the glue holding me together through all of this. He is my sustenance and my strength.
Day 6 of Mirapex/Pramipexole, yes, calm and quiet are the words, there is been no jerking for two days, and I sleep for at least 6 hours at one time.
I'm truly blessed, and the Lord for His divine favor.
My mother, who decided to dig a ditch a few weeks ago (no, really) is having back surgery next Wednesday and I'd appreciate it if you could keep her in your prayers.
My mother, who decided to dig a ditch a few weeks ago (no, really) is having back surgery next Wednesday and I'd appreciate it if you could keep her in your prayers.