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lifeguard at the cement pond
Is it?
If someone you loved was shooting heroin, would you find it hard to hate their dirty habit, while still loving the person?
at what point, though, does a person become defined by their actions?
consider a catholic priest, for example, who ministers to the sick, comforts the elderly, feeds the poor....
...and molests children
at what point does he become a child molester?