You can ask, doesn't mean I'll tell. You can ask me anything, really. I'll either tell you, not tell you, or, as usual, tell you I don't know/have no idea. I've had many people who know about my diagnosis treat me like some kind of mystic/oracle, and believe that I have some special insight into the cosmos. I find them just as ingratiating as people that are afraid of me or think I'm a monster.
Might as well tell. My ex-wife had an affair.
sorry to hear that
but
there are many men haters here that will just assume that you beat her