I am hurt that you would pose such a question to me.
I am hurt that you would count me as someone not sympatheic to an actual rape victim or to having the 'mindset of a theif or rapist' all because i agree that a foolish person can in their own foolish behavior create a situation where they are more likely to become a crime victim.
Its a valid question, because ive been flat out told by some people here before that i am not their friend because i am friends with __________.
Happens all the time.