ebenz47037 said:
I respect you as a man of God and as a minister of God. But, you cannot expect the respect you demand to continue being returned if you're going to disrespect me and the other female moderators by saying that women have no authority over men.
You said that women have no authority over men. I said that Poly had no authority to rebuke me for sinning when I didn't sin, or attempt to instruct me about something she is wrong about. It appeared to me to just be a woman throwing a hiisy fit because she was suddenly offended because her friends were offended.
She obviously doesn't think her avatar is offensive, yet it endorses a movie that protrays a nun as a sex symbol. A woman that has chosed to remain pure is portrayed as a sex symbol. In the movie trailer, the nun is checking out Jack Black's butt. Nothing offensive there for women and children I guess?
Hypocrisy!
ebenz47037 said:
It's more like I agree that a Christian will not do those things. If a man or woman is willing to do them, they're not Christians. Bottom line.
That's what I believe. Have you noticed that your fellow moderators don't appear to believe that?
ebenz47037 said:
But, if I understood you correctly, you were going much further than that. You were saying that a Christian can not sin; do no wrong. Those aren't the only sins that people commit, elo.
Those sins are evidence that the person does not love their neighbor, and so they break the entire law. If a Christian is someone that loves his/her neighbor, then they fulfill the law. You can't break and fulfill the law at the same time.
ebenz47037 said:
I can honestly tell you that I've never done any of those things you mentioned.
I believe you, but when I say that, I get people like Turbo trying to play the accuser, making up new sins that I supposedly have broken. That's wrong.
ebenz47037 said:
Does that mean that I don't ever sin? If I look at the fact that I smoke cigarettes (defiling the temple of God), I have to say no.
Are you a Seventh-day Adventist? They say the same exact thing. In fact, my mothyer in law is not allowed in my home because she smokes cigarettes. Not because I think smoking is a sin, but because she thinks smoking is a sin yet continues to smoke. It's hypocrisy.
Smoking is not a sin, Nori. You are not sinning when you smoke. It has no bearing on whether you love me or not. It is a disgusting habit, and it is poisoning you, but you don't defile the temple by what you put in it (like Jesus said. Remember?).
ebenz47037 said:
If I look at the fact that sometimes the things I say hurt someone else, I have to say no.
Do you intentional say things to hurt people without a cause, Nori? I doubt it. You probably say hurtful things to hammer home your point. That's not a sin, and if it were then Jesus was a bigger sinner than you.
If you are making things up about people to intentionally hurt them, then you do have a problem. I pray you overcome that, if you do; but I doubt you do.
ebenz47037 said:
I am one with Jesus, Nori. And like he said, when you do something to me, you are doing it to him. When you feed me, you are feeding him. When you reject me, you are rejecting him. When you have seen me, you have Jesus and the Father because they are both dwelling in me, and in every believer. That's Christianity 101.
ebenz47037 said:
And, pointing something out to you is not sinning.
Falsly accusing me of sinning is a sin, and that's what she did.
Exodus 20:16 Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbour.
ebenz47037 said:
And, I already said above that my belief regarding the issue of Christians and sin is that Christians will not do those things, not that they cannot do them. Either way, we have to make a conscious choice to sin or to serve God.
If we are fulfilling the law by loving our neighbor, then we cannot be simultaneously breaking the law. If you honestly believe that you are sinning when you smoke, then you should stop smoking. Make a conscious choice. Or don't expect others to turn from their wickedness based on your witness.
ebenz47037 said:
Unless someone else bans you, you won't be banned.
Then I will stay and do my Father's will, which is to call sinners to repentance.
ebenz47037 said:
But, instead of coming out so strongly against Poly, maybe you should have asked her why she thought that you were sinning? It might have kept the stress level down a little more than it did.
I didn't have to ask her, as it was very clear from her post. And the stress level is high only because people want "truthsmack" but not be Truth smacked back.
I care a lot about you, Nori; and now I am even more concerned for you because of this smoking issue, especially since it is an issue we are dealing with regarding my mother-in-law. It hits so close to home.