who is going to do it?
how are they going to decide?
How does anyone decide if someone has been abused? They report it and investigate. See a physician. Collect evidence.
The main reason I hold the title of feminist is because as a woman, it is MY job to protect my children and encourage other women to protect THEIR children. I am the ONLY person with the power to do this.
Existing children should always be the FIRST priority, yes or no?