Irony...indeed.
No, boxes were created years ago to condemn, shun and segregate the "sin" of homosexuality by and from mainstream society. The
homosexual's attempt at legitimacy is an attempt to escape from the box (or closet, if you will) the likes of you so righteously confine them within.
You refuse to be limited? ....so does the homosexual.
Yet there would be no need to "make an attempt at legitimacy" if this behavior was natural or legitimate which it is not, it is is anomalous behavior which is why it is illegitimate.