Should Women Be Beaten?

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A sound thrashing (or even a spanking) breeds anger, pain, revenge fantasies and often pure rage. Not to mention the danger of growing up believing adults in authority over you (or peer groups) will always have the last word concerning your behavior. Self discipline is much more important, effective and useful than discipline forced onto us from others.
Sounds good on paper.
But I'll have to say that I grew up in a generation when parents and schools whipped unruly children. And in that time most children grew up to be much more respectful of others.

I'm floored at how many outright disrespectful brats have turned up in the latest generation.
 

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thanks rex, but i'm not really all that concerned with what the dishonest legal system says

i'm more interested in what a just Godly system would say about it

ok, then lets see your scriptural support for wife beating.

no, i'm asking the questions


what does scripture say about the punishments appropriate for a woman who engages in adultery, for instance?

I have to wonder about the decency of a man who even proposes such a question.:confused:

which question is that?
 

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we've had consensus here and there that there are actions that some men take that deserve a sound thrashing - the upskirts in massachusetts thread comes to mind, and just about any thread that veers into pedophilia or spousal abuse territory
I remember a little controversy about this among my friends and me back in the Sims 2 days. Sometimes, in that game, married couples would become so unhappy with each other (usually if one had cheated on the other) that one would actually attack the other. Male or female had no role in determining the winner of the fight, but whenever the female won the scuffle the response was usually something along the lines of "LOL - she showed him!" or "he got what he deserved" if the male caused the problem in the first place. A male victory, however, tended to result in feelings of unease and disgust at the virtual spousal abuse which had just occurred. There certainly was a bit of a double standard. Also when different-sex siblings fought each other.

Anyway......... I've also questioned (here and elsewhere) the joy and glee a lot of people seem to have at the idea of male criminals being sexually abused by other males in prison - because they deserve it. Does that mean female criminals might deserve it too? What horrible things could a woman do that should make us feel it is right and just that she be sexually abused by men in prison? If nothing, no matter how horrible, why nevertheless will it on men?
 
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bybee

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I remember a little controversy about this among my friends and me back in the Sims 2 days. Sometimes, in that game, married couples would become so unhappy with each other (usually if one had cheated on the other) that one would actually attack the other. Male or female had no role in determining the winner of the fight, but whenever the female won the scuffle the response was usually something along the lines of "LOL - she showed him!" or "he got what he deserved" if the male caused the problem in the first place. A male victory, however, tended to result in feelings of unease and disgust at the virtual spousal abuse which had just occurred. There certainly was a bit of a double standard. Also when different-sex siblings fought each other.

Anyway......... I've also questioned (here and elsewhere) the joy and glee a lot of people seem to have at the idea of male criminals being sexually abused by other males in prison - because they deserve it. Does that mean female criminals might deserve it too? What horrible things could a woman do that should make us feel it is right and just that she be sexually abused by men in prison? If nothing, no matter how horrible, why nevertheless will it on men?

I think it is appalling that people incarcerated for any reason are not safe from physical abuse.
 

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no, i'm asking the questions


what does scripture say about the punishments appropriate for a woman who engages in adultery, for instance?

Depends on whether your looking in the OT or the NT or at Abraham and Hagar -King David and Bathsheba or Israel and God or Jesus and the woman caught in adultery and all those who commit adultery in their heart when they lust after another.

Even in all these instances though, i never see where a husband should beat his wife, so clarify for that for me.
 

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If we shouldn't use corporal punishment against a spouse, why is it then OK to use against our children?

And if it's viewed as a reasonable method of correction outside the home, why wouldn't it also be reasonable inside the home?

If a man can't beat a women, ever, can he beat a girl? Why?

These are valid questions....... One answer that comes to mind, is that a child's brain is at a different stage of development than a fully grown and mature adult brain. The neural pathways that are built in the young brain (result of corporal punishment) would be dramatically different than the neural pathway delta in the adult brain. The effect on the punished subject would be dramatically different.
 

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These are valid questions....... One answer that comes to mind, is that a child's brain is at a different stage of development than a fully grown and mature adult brain. The neural pathways that are built in the young brain (result of corporal punishment) would be dramatically different than the neural pathway delta in the adult brain. The effect on the punished subject would be dramatically different.


seems to work in singapore :idunno:
 

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if a woman (sister, wife, girlfriend) is physically abusive, is a man justified in using physical force to stop her aggressiveness?


offshoot from here
 

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we've had consensus here and there that there are actions that some men take that deserve a sound thrashing - the upskirts in massachusetts thread comes to mind, and just about any thread that veers into pedophilia or spousal abuse territory

what specific actions would justify corporal punishment of women by their husbands?
Absolutely none.
 
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