A couple of years ago I got tired of ranting against the homosexuals and realized that we Christians are not going to change the sexual mores of anyone until we recriminalize Adultery. I agree wholeheartedly with what Bob said about this sin, and the other sins of sexual fornication and pornography.
There are many pastors of churches today who, while they were pastors, have committed adultery, and the adulteress, the second wife, is the new pastor's wife and co-pastor. They question why anyone should doubt their authority and calling, after they have supposedly repented. The real question should be why did you not get punished or spend some time in jail for what you did?