Hi....If I may interject......The soul is the "you" part of the equation, as we are spirit, soul, and body. The soul is comprised of 4 parts that correspond with the 4 corners of our earth-en vessel (He calls them in from the four corners of the earth to be centered in Christ the Seed), and are meant to be laid on the altar (make of yourselves a living sacrifice), tied to the 4 corners of it with cords of love (no greater love hath any man than....) which cannot be broken.
The four parts also correspond to chambers of the natural heart; they are the mind, will, emotions, and desires. They also correspond to the four rivers in Genesis, that by the end of the processing of man by HaShem, become one again, in Him.
At death, the soul that did not overcome all things through the Seed, stays trapped by what it did not overcome until the Savior comes. The spirit returns to the One who gave it. The separation of soul and spirit is as a "divorce" of an unfaithful wife.
The soul is feminine in nature, and like a womb reproduces whatever seed is planted in it. The spirit is male in nature because the Spirit plants the Seed. See Matt. 13 parable of the wheat and the tares for understanding. The tares (bad seed) was planted when the man slept. Adam was put to sleep by HaShem but you cannot find where He woke Him up until Yeshua came, which was prophesied by Isaiah for one, Awake and Christ will give you light.
Eve was representative of the covering of Adam's stony heart (calcium is a stony mineral), and HaShem brought it out so Adam could see what it looked like face to face, like looking into a mirror. Same principle in Deut. 7 He told the Israelites He took them out into the wilderness (of sin) so they could see what was in their hearts. This is why the Tabernacle of Moses, the pattern we are to look to compare spiritual things, had chambers (same word as rib).
And this is why Yeshua was pierced in His ribs to His heart, so that the rib HaShem removed, could return to it's place as the cleansed covering for His heart (Yeshua's virgin bride/soul). I could go on and on, as I've studied this thoroughly over 30 years, but this is the condensed version. Peace