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An idea that has continued to march through Western Court systems
in the USA and Canada, in spite of being discredited and debunked
by scientists and experts, has resulted in thousands of ruined lives,
families destroyed, bankruptcys and false convictions and imprisonments.
It all started with the publication of this book,
which was authored by pretenders who had no credentials in psychology
or forensic expertise, but were in fact fiction writers.
in the USA and Canada, in spite of being discredited and debunked
by scientists and experts, has resulted in thousands of ruined lives,
families destroyed, bankruptcys and false convictions and imprisonments.
It all started with the publication of this book,
which was authored by pretenders who had no credentials in psychology
or forensic expertise, but were in fact fiction writers.
http://www.angryparents.net/the_courage/the_courage.html Reading this book, thousands of young women, and a few young men, have had their lives ruined and their families torn apart. In The Courage to Heal, authors Ellen Bass and Laura Davis, devote one whole section to their lesbian love-making. Qualified only as writers of fiction, but posing as experts in psychology, they would have you believe that you are a victim, that all your problems today are due to your father having sexually abused you when you were a child, that you don’t remember it because you repressed the horrible experience out of your conscious memory in order to live, and now you must dredge up this non-memory of a non-event and re-live it many times over in order to heal. YOU are the target of the authors! Sadly, some agenda-driven psychotherapists subscribe to this bizarre notion and recommend that their clients read The Courage to Heal. The American Medical Association: “The AMA considers recovered memories of childhood sexual abuse to be of uncertain authenticity which should be subject to external verification. The use of recovered memories is fraught with problems of potential misapplication.” The American Psychological Association: “Most people who were sexually abused as Children remember all or part of what happened to them although they may not fully understand or disclose it.” In 1999 four law professors, David L. Faigman, David H. Kaye, Michael J. Saks, and Joseph Sanders, reviewed the results of psychological studies of 63 separate horrific events. These events included the Holocaust, fires, ship sinkings, plane crashes, volcanic explosion, sniper attacks, military combat, earthquake, rape, and children witnessing the murder of their parents. Of the over 10,000 survivors studied, the ONLY individuals who did not remember the incident were either unconscious or suffered brain damage during the event. Contrary to claims made in The Courage to Heal, traumatic memories are NOT repressed. Ask yourself: how many real rape victims would be glad if they could forget the experience? Thousands of families have been destroyed because people who read this book followed its advice. To maintain your hold on reality and avoid wrecking your family, read any of these books instead: True Stories of False Memories by Eleanor Goldstein and Kevin Farmer The Myth of Repressed Memory by Dr. Elizabeth Loftus Making Monsters by Dr. Richard Ofshe and Ethan Watters Confabulations by Eleanor Goldstein Second Thoughts by Dr. Paul Simpson Diagnosis for Disaster by Claudette Wassil-Grimm This page is published out of concern for you by Parents Against Cruel Therapy d9it@comcast.net True Stories of False Memories By Eleanor Goldstein and Kevin Farmer “I think that the authors of such misleading books like The Courage to Heal owe the public an apology for the hoax they are perpetrating with their misinformation about “repressed memories.” Ellen Bass and Laura Davis need to write a new book about false memories that is a complete retraction of much of the garbage that they put forth in their early books.” - Melody Gavigan “I do not believe that group therapy is appropriate for someone who is not in individual therapy and who is not strong and individualistic. ... if they’re given a book like The Courage to Heal..., they will come to believe that they are incest victims also. The suggestibility of the women was proven by the flashbacks they reported. If one woman had a flash back of snakes and cannibalism in the woods, a few days later, someone else had a similar flash back.” - Lynn Gondolf “I was told to read books about evil, sexual abuse, dysfunctional families, co-dependency, and on and on. Some of the required reading included People of the Lie, Courage to Heal, Healing the Shame that Binds You, On Becoming a Person, and The Child Within. I ‘lived’ therapy. It was always on my mind. When I wasn’t at therapy, I was calling my therapist. When I wasn’t talking to my therapist, I was thinking about my therapy. The entire ordeal consumed every ounce of energy I had and every penny I could get my hands on. All of this was ‘necessary’ for me to ‘get well.’ Again, remember, (my therapist) repeatedly told me. ‘You have to get worse before you get better’. I continued to get worse.” - Laura Pasley |