"Today, by the grace of God, I am no longer “gay” but happily married to my beautiful wife for almost 18 years. I am also the father of our two precious children, a boy and a girl. I no longer struggle whatsoever with homosexuality – and I am the heterosexual man that God created me to be".
If you, kmoney, De-Horn, T4y and Sandy need further proof, I suppose you could ask for a DNA match.
Stephen Bennett appears to be a guy that had daddy issues (alcoholic distant father etc) and was molested as a kid... so he is your average,
"emotionally stable" convert.
He is far from exceptional anyhow as the "Infinite-ex-ex gays" video I shared above indicated, many many people have at one time claimed to be ex-gay and later recanted.
Having kids is no guarantor of an orientation change either and is in fact something that many alleged ex-gays rush in to specifically because they believe it will
"seal the deal". John Paulk is an example who was far more prominent in the ex-gay movement than this Stephen Bennett guy seems to be. He also had 3 sons. He was married for a decade or so but is now divorced and openly gay again.
John Paulk, "Love Won Out" founder and former chairman of the board of "Exodus International" appeared on “Oprah” and “Good Morning America" in support of ex-gay therapy. He has since issued an apology for his involvement in the ex-gay movement:
"For the better part of ten years, I was an advocate and spokesman for what’s known as the "ex-gay movement"... I do not believe that reparative therapy changes sexual orientation; in fact, it does great harm to many people."
John Paulk isn't even among those 5 or so leaders/founders in my video in the first post who now admit that the ex-gay movement is a sham. I believe the religious fanatics in the U.S. are gradually learning but there are still a few proponents of it, usually those who are paid to "share their testimony".
It's hard to say whether people like Bennett simply have emotional disorders from their abusive childhoods, which lead them to transiently pursue same-sex relationships, or whether they're genuinely gay (and likely biromantic).