First and foremost, a relationship with our Creator. Second, if it fits His plan, a companion to be fruitful and multiply with. Third, the fellowship of your brothers and sisters in Christ. In truth, God is in all of that, as you know.
So I guess it always goes back to the first and foremost. I think that if we listen to the still small voice, if there seems to be a gap of loneliness in our lives, He will fill it, and we can expect him to because it is His will that we are not alone. That's one of the first principles set out in scripture: "It's not good for man to be alone." God bless you, sister.