A few comments:
1. Empathy isn't a problem for people with AS. We're not sociopaths. We empathize just fine...when we are able to catch on to the appropriate behavior and social cues. It's the latter part that's tricky. [Though it does get easier with time.]
2. I was unaware that you were diagnosed with AS. How in the bloody blazes did you get married?
3. I don't get this whole "let's point out the fact that Trad has AS" thing in recent threads. It doesn't bother me, of course. I don't really care either way. It just seems odd given the fact that 1. the threads weren't about AS and 2. I basically never talk about AS.